Time to talk about guns

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Morning Zen guest blog post ~ Liza Long ~ 

Please don't shoot me!

gunIn 2012, 986 mass shootings ago, I wrote these words: “”In the wake of another horrific national tragedy, it’s easy to talk about guns. But it’s time to talk about mental illness.” 

Now it’s time to talk about guns.

In the wake of the Umpqua Community College shooting, I had the unenviable task of appearing on CNN to defend the shooter’s mother, Laurel Harper, for sharing an entirely legal interest in firearms with her son.

Legal, but stupid.

Should Harper be blamed for her son’s actions? Of course not. Millions of parents share an interest in guns with their children. Harper did not have a crystal ball that could predict her son would become a mass shooter; in fact, it could be argued that mothers are the worst people to ask about their children’s weaknesses, because we prefer to focus, like Harper did, on our children’s strengths. Harper, who is grieving the loss of her son, the tenth victim of the shooting, couldn’t predict a mass shooting any better than anyone else can.

But was Harper irresponsible in how she owned and stored her guns? The clear answer is yes. Not because her son had a mental illness. Because all parents who own and store guns in their homes are irresponsible, regardless of whether anyone in the family has a mental illness.

What causes mass shootings? The same thing that causes 61% of all deaths by gun violence (suicides): easy access to guns. If no one in your family has suffered the negative effects of gun ownership, it’s not because you are a “responsible gun owner.” You are just lucky.

The research on guns and gun ownership is clear. Having firearms in your home makes everyone who lives there more likely to be a victim of gun violence, period. That’s irresponsible parenting.

In the wake of other clear public health risks, Americans have acted rationally. For example, seat belts save lives, so we pass laws that require car drivers to buckle up, and accident-related deaths go down.

But guns? Pry them from our cold, dead fingers.

I live in Idaho, a state where the Second Amendment is revered only slightly less than the Bible. I have enjoyed shooting as a sport; in fact, my brothers taught marksmanship at Boy Scout camps for years. I also enjoy hunting, and many of my friends provide food for their families by heading to the hills with their .22s each October.

But as I’ve learned more about the risks of storing guns in the home, my views on gun control have evolved.

I've avoided talking publicly about guns for this simple reason: I am afraid one of my Second Amendment-worshipping, gun-toting neighbors will shoot me. As I wrote this essay, my husband, reading over my shoulder, said, “Let’s update our wills before you publish.”

But our fear speaks volumes about why we need to talk about guns. In fact, we all are afraid—to go to the store, to the movie theater, to school. It’s time to face that fear head on and do something about it.

I believe that Americans should be allowed to own any type of gun they want to—as long as they are stored in locked cases at gun clubs. Want to shoot a semiautomatic and feel like an action movie hero? Knock yourself out—at the gun club. Want to take your kids hunting for the weekend? Check out your hunting rifles—from the gun club.

If Adam and Nancy Lanza had bonded over guns at a club instead of at home, 20 children would likely be enjoying fourth grade this fall. If Laurel Harper and Chris Mercer had bonded over guns at a club instead of at home, 10 people would likely still be alive today and turning in their midterm writing assignments. If guns were stored at a gun club instead of at home, more than 19,000 people who died by suicide in a single year might have had a chance to get the mental healthcare they desperately needed.

Our Founding Fathers were reasonable men. They surely never imagined a country where an amendment designed to keep the British from invading, at a time when guns could only fire one shot at a time with questionable accuracy, would lead to weekly mass shootings of innocent citizens.

I hope that Laurel Harper will join moms across America in demanding action from Congress on gun control. I’m one of those moms. Please don’t shoot me.

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lizaLiza Long, aka the Anarchist Soccer Mom, is a writer, educator, mental health advocate, and mother of four children. She loves her Steinway, her kids,and her day job, not necessarily in that order. Her book "The Price of Silence: A Mom's Perspective on Mental Illness" is now available in bookstores.


  1. Joanne Juhnke's avatar
    Joanne Juhnke
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    Winnie - I don't think the threshold for policy-change regarding guns needs to be "guaranteeing that Sandy Hook/Oregon wouldn't happen." Seatbelts don't guarantee survival in automobile accidents either -- but they do reduce casualties. And by that more-achievable standard, any step that makes it less convenient to carry out a mass shooting (or a suicide-by-gun attempt, for that matter) is a step toward at least reducing the carnage.

    I agree that American attitude toward guns is the most challenging hurdle, by the way.
  2. Kevin Dwyer's avatar
    Kevin Dwyer
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    Making access a bit more difficult for a person with mental illness or even an impulsive angry family member will save lives. So would gun safes, trigger locks, professionals warning families to remove guns from homes of suicidal persons and other rational access rules. Also regular reminders by physicians, particularly pediatricians, and other health providers of the dangers of firearms in the home and best practice suggestions about how secure gun storage including gun clubs storage can save lives. We control baby cribs and infant car seats, bottle caps for medicines, toys, car construction and so on. Yet gun access injures and kills more and more uncontrolled. We need sensible controls over guns.
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    Winnie mcmahon
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    Let's say in the case of both Sandy Hook and Oregon the guns has been stored at a gun club. What would have stopped Lanza and Mercer from going there and getting the guns? They were both over 18. So how would the guns being there have stopped them? Would they have needed their mother's permission? Both their mothers are as responsible as they are. Your idea might have merit when it comes to stopping accidents at home--the 11 year old who shoots the 3 year old, but just how would it have stopped Sandy Hook or Oregon? The only thing that is going to stop these massacres is ending this bizarre fetish America has about guns. What do you think the chances of that are?
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